Wedding bands are so much more than just plain old rings. They are the symbol and physical embodiment of your commitment, love, and a lifetime that you want to share with your partner. Considering that you’ll be wearing your wedding band every day, it’s essential to choose one that not only reflects your style but also matches your lifestyle. Whether you live an active life, work with your hands, or prefer a certain aesthetic, your wedding band should be a perfect balance of beauty and practicality.
What Are Your Options?
The first thing to consider is whether you and your partner want matching or non-matching rings.
There are three options:
- Wedding set (same ring for bride and groom)
- A wedding ring that matches the engagement ring (for women)
- Non-matching wedding rings
Once you've decided on this, you can start to consider what you think are the perfect wedding bands for either you or the both of you. Keep reading to discover four of the most essential tips to help you choose a perfect wedding band that fits seamlessly into your life and ensures lasting comfort and durability. Remember always to allow ample time to choose your ring(s).
1. Type: Understanding Metal Options For Durability And Style
The type of metal you choose for your wedding ring style plays a key role in both its durability and appearance. Your lifestyle and daily activities will heavily influence the type of metal that best suits you, as some metals are more resilient than others.
Precious Metals: Gold, Platinum, And Silver
When thinking of traditional wedding bands, precious metals like gold, platinum, and silver often come to mind. These metals offer timeless elegance, but each has its pros and cons when it comes to durability.
Gold
The appeal of gold makes it the most classic option, available in yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold tones. However, gold is a softer metal, and while higher-karat gold (like 18-karat gold) offers a richer color, it is more susceptible to scratches. If you live an active lifestyle, consider 14k gold for a white gold engagement ring or wedding band, which strikes a balance between durability and color in a better way than 18ct gold.
Platinum
Platinum is one of the strongest and most durable metals for wedding bands. It’s heavier than gold and has a natural white finish, which doesn’t fade over time. If you want a low-maintenance, long-lasting band that withstands everyday wear and tear, then a platinum wedding band is a solid choice.
Silver
While silver offers a beautiful, budget-friendly option, it’s softer and more prone to tarnishing. If you choose silver, be prepared for regular maintenance to keep your ring looking pristine to maintain its timeless appeal.
Alternative Metals: Titanium, Tungsten, And Cobalt
For those with an active lifestyle or who need a tougher ring, alternative metals provide exceptional durability without sacrificing style on your wedding day.
Titanium
Known for its lightweight feel and extreme strength, titanium is hypoallergenic, making it ideal for those with sensitive skin. However, it can be more difficult to resize, so be sure you’re confident in the fit when choosing this metal to help your skin sensitivity.
Tungsten
Tungsten carbide is one of the hardest metals available for wedding bands. It’s incredibly scratch-resistant but can be brittle, meaning it may crack under extreme pressure. Tungsten rings are available in various finishes, including sleek black and gunmetal tones which are both popular choices, especially with men.
Cobalt
Cobalt is another excellent choice for durability. It’s highly scratch-resistant and has a natural white color similar to platinum but at a more affordable price point. An ideal wedding band for someone who wants to keep things simple with a plain wedding band made from high-quality materials.
2. Style: Reflecting Your Personality And Daily Aesthetic
Your wedding band should reflect your personal style and how you want to present yourself every day. Are you someone who loves bold designs, or do you prefer a classic traditional style and understated look? Here are some factors to consider when thinking about the style of your wedding band.
Classic Vs. Modern
Classic Band
Classic wedding bands are typically simple and timeless, often featuring a smooth, unadorned design. Classic choice bands in yellow gold or platinum are traditional options that will never go out of style. If you prefer a timeless look that pairs well with any outfit or occasion, a classic design is the way to go.
Modern Band
Modern-style wedding ring designs incorporate contemporary elements such as mixed popular metals, unique finishes, or textured designs. Think matte finishes, brushed surfaces, or hammered textures. If you want something that stands out from the crowd, a modern wedding band can make a bold statement.
Customization And Personalization
Adding a personal touch to your wedding band can make it even more meaningful to your married life. Consider engraving your band with a special date, initials, or a short phrase that holds significance to you and your partner. This subtle touch makes your ring uniquely yours and adds sentimental value. There is always plenty of time for customization in the design stage.
Another option is to incorporate gemstones into the band. Whether it’s small diamonds, sapphires, or your birthstone, adding precious stones to your ring can elevate its design and add a touch of sparkle.
3. Construction: Ensuring Longevity And Comfort
The way your wedding band is constructed determines its strength, comfort, and how well it will hold up to daily wear after the wedding ceremony. Depending on your lifestyle, you may need a ring that offers additional support or special features to ensure it remains in excellent condition for years to come.
Solid Vs. Hollow Bands
Solid Bands
Solid, sturdy metal bands are made from a single piece of metal and offer greater durability. They’re ideal for people who live active lives or work with their hands, as they can withstand more wear and tear. Solid plain metal bands are also heavier and more substantial on the finger, giving them a premium feel.
Hollow Bands
Hollow bands are lighter and more affordable but tend to be less durable. They may be suitable for someone looking for a delicate design or who wants a more lightweight option. However, be cautious of hollow bands if you need a ring that can endure daily use, as they are more prone to damage over time depending on your choice of metal.
Comfort Fit Vs. Standard Fit
Comfort Fit
Comfort fit wedding bands have a rounded inner edge, making them easier to slip on and off and more comfortable to wear for extended periods. This is especially beneficial for those who wear their rings daily or work with their hands, as comfort-fit bands reduce friction on the finger for common metals.
Standard Fit
Standard fit bands have a flat interior, which can make them feel snugger. While this traditional construction is still widely used, it may not be as comfortable for everyday wear, especially for people who frequently remove and put on their rings.
4. Shape: Finding The Perfect Fit For Your Finger
The shape of your perfect wedding ring affects how it feels on your finger and how well it complements your engagement ring (if you wear one). Your lifestyle and daily activities should influence the shape of the wedding jewelry you choose, as some band shapes may offer more comfort or durability than others.
Domed Vs. Flat Bands
Domed Bands
Domed wedding bands have a rounded exterior, giving them a smooth and classic look. This traditional shape is comfortable and less likely to catch on clothing or objects, making it ideal for those with active lifestyles. Domed bands are also great for those who want a timeless and understated design.
Flat Bands
Flat bands have a modern, angular appearance, with a flat exterior surface. While sleek and stylish, flat bands can feel slightly less comfortable, especially if you’re not used to wearing jewelry. However, if you prefer a modern aesthetic, the flat band offers a chic and minimalist look.
Wide Vs. Narrow Bands
Wider Bands
Wide wedding bands are bold and make a statement on your finger. They are often more noticeable and can stand out as a significant piece of jewelry. However, wide bands may feel bulkier, so they may not be as comfortable for everyday wear, especially for those with smaller hands.
Narrow Bands
Narrow bands are more subtle and delicate, making them ideal for stacking with an engagement ring. They tend to feel lighter and are more comfortable for those who prefer a less obtrusive ring. Narrow bands also tend to work well with petite hands and fingers, offering a balanced look.
These are the key considerations but others will influence your decision-making, including
- Choice of retailer, online or in-store
- Whether you choose a specific designer
- Type of setting if you want a diamond wedding band (or other precious / colored gemstones)
- Lifestyle
- Wedding budget
At Mervis Diamond, we can answer every question you might have and show you a wide range of wedding bands in all kinds of styles at all price points. We source, use, and sell only the finest, high-quality diamonds, working with the best designers. Book an appointment today and discover exactly what it is you're looking for.